The Cheating spouse And His Very Understanding Lover Who Thinks Adult Phone Is Not Really Being Unfaithful.

It’s most likely that should you have a smartphone, then you quite possibly have already been subjected to material of an adult nature! And in case you happen to be just like lots of the men (and ladies, myself included) I work and play with, you might have (at a minimum) given some thoughts into trying to see what the deal is with all this adult phone stuff. .

It’s not as if we are not spoiled for choice is it? There are plenty of one on one phone sex conversations to be had, private shows to participate in so why deprive ourselves of this type of adult entertainment. (As long as it is between consenting adults of course.).

I actually know plenty of people, who are single or in between relationships who do use this type of adult entertainment. But what would you say if a person you knew, a married person! at that told you once that she caught her husband using one such adult phone service? Would you forgive him as my friend just did (she realized that her beloved hubby had been contacting a sex phone service for some special “pleasure”, as if this wasn’t enough he used her visa card “yet” had the “good sense” to spend her very own dough on Cheap Phone Sex packages!), or would his indiscretions be a deal breaker? I know how I would have reacted but here is what my friend told me when I asked her whether she had been angered by the whole thing!

“I’ll be honest with you and very much to my surprise, not I wasn’t that angry! What I mean to say that although I wasn’t really happy about him chatting other women over the phone, I was more upset because he had been using my money to pay for these calls. At the end of the day, I asked myself if his actions constituted some form of cheating on his part, and I have to admit that I didn’t think that it did. You and I know perfectly well what we sometime get up to when we go out together, I mean we do anything physical with anyone, but we do indulge in a fair amount of sexual banter with people ourselves, don’t we! So no… I wasn’t angry!”

Needless to say, I found her answer really interesting. This was my friend. My dear childhood friend. The person who covered for me when I sneaked out one day to go out on a date with a guy my parents didn’t approve of. The girl who had her fist kiss on prom day. And there she was being so open minded. How she had taken all of this was a revelation. She actually didn’t mind and saw that he had been talking to invisible women, and such they had no immediate effect on her relationship. “He is having an affair with a fantasy” she added and she was right.

After all, is there any husband out there who doesn’t watch porn whenever he can, alone, without the company of his lady? “I caught Bob (my own husband) watching porn on his iPhone the other day! I had to admit. “I can understand your point of view though since when that happen, I was angry with him, not because he was watching porn, but because he was doing it without me”!

And just as I was going to develop my chain of thoughts further, my friend cut me off:

“I am telling you. I was furious because of the credit card issue so I let him have it for a while. But when that was done, I realized that was feeling left out, I mean if this man whom I had always enjoyed intimacy with was himself exploring fantasies by phone, shouldn’t I at least see what the bid deal was all about?!”

I was shocked! This was my gentle sweet childhood friend I was in conversation with. The lady who had her very first kiss one twelve months after I enjoyed mine… The girl who waited to have sex until she was ready for it, which turned out to be after she graduated from college. And here she was telling that she and her hubby were engaged in some 3some phone affairs. It was outrageous… And fascinating.

“Don’t tell me that you did!” I asked her!

“Indeed I did!” She told me with the naughtiest smile I had ever seen on her pretty fact. “And let me tell you something: You should try it! It’s quite delicious!”